Think about it – it’s safer that way.
Think before you speak.
When you speak your ‘magic words’ – know that the moment they are spoken they drift out into the ether to create your truth – because that’s what we speak. Even if you speak lies – they are still your truth and you will see they become exactly what you spoke them to be. That’s part of the magic.
If you aren’t planning for your words to be taken literally – don’t say them.
If you aren’t expecting someone to believe what you say when you say it – don’t speak.
IF YOU CAN’T SAY SOMETHING NICE – DON’T SAY ANYTHING AT ALL – remember that one? Thanks Mom.
All these angles are relevant through choosing your life by design. Designing your life means first having an idea of what you want – then creating it to be. We do that with furniture right? We decide where it is going to go before we move it? Yes, if the room is big enough its good to try it out in a new spot to see what ‘feels’ right before we go for it – and that’s ok! It’s like trying on an outfit to see if we want to buy it – could I see myself in that? Is that who I am? Does it look ‘right’ ?
It’s the same with the words we say.
When pressured, we can say things we don’t really mean which actually causes more distress in the long term, so – maintaining alignment with who we truly are or strive to be, is the best way to stay ‘clean’
Recently, I have become weighed down by how someone close to me speaks to me, or refers to me. Interestingly – because this has been happening overtime I didn’t see the slow change in myself until it was too late. I didn’t maintain the high quality of self talk I would usually have with regard to myself because I allowed the weight of the words of another to stick. I deteriorated somewhat and like a little defenceless animal in a cage, the next time I got prodded with a sharp stick (harsh words) I struck out and spoke in a way I would never normally speak to another person. Ever.
I’ve been brought up to say what you mean and mean what you say – because once it is said – you can’t take it back. I have no regrets, though me speaking in this way to match the behaviour of the other person caused a major resentment towards me from them – especially because I never used to speak this way – So now, this one off yucky thing I said became a go-to ‘thing’ they referred to, to make their point – time and time again long after it had been said. I had given that person ammunition unnecessarily.
If there is a point to be made, there is an argument in progress so when one person can be the bigger person and walk away – the argument is off.
I allowed myself to get swept into it – I didn’t manage myself or my behaviour to know when I was losing my sense of self because I had allowed the person close to me to have power over me. Not cool Karsha. We owe it to ourself to stay clean and clear and make decisions from there – don’t make decisions from a toxic place.
So speaking in a way I wouldn’t usually speak was like me trying on a different outfit. Matching behaviour. I unconsciously considered that I could be like that person if I spoke out and said something mean – to hurt them as much as they hurt me. I can tell you – this just leads to more hurt and no one benefits at all.
Hurt people, HURT people.
Remember who you are
When people say shitty things toward you – see it as a reflection of their inner world. What you want to say or may say in response to their ‘filter’ is an example of yours.
To remember who you are is to know with unwavering certainty who you were born to be. If know know deep down you are destined for great things – claim it. If you know deep down you are a kind and considerate human than keep making choices that align with that. How we speak about ourselves is projected outwards. How we see ourself is obvious when we have a conversation with another person – taking about what we can and can’t do. What is ‘hard’ or ‘too much’ –
Witness yourself!
Fly above – zoom out – see who you are presenting yourself to be in any given moment –
Ytruly have the power to create the magic of who you will become – by repetition we learn it and soon it is habit – so start taking notice today of the way you speak to yourself, the way you speak to others and allow the you who you know yourself to truly be to shine through above all the hurt and pain that others project onto us – we are still there underneath it all.
Remember who you are – do this for yourself – you are worth it
Spoken word is interdimensional
This is where we ramp it up together by suspending beliefs of what we think we know and considering for a moment that our word is first a thought from the 4th or 5th dimension – it comes through and is turned to sound which carries weight in the 3rd dimension – we can not see the words so they are formless – yet powerful where they came from and where they are magically imprinted to – especially when spoken by someone else toward us. Do you let the words sit and fester in your higher dimensional realities? This is septic and dangerous to creation
Conscious and constant creation of self and the realisation of your dreams manifests from this same space – so keep it clean
