Is there is an area of your life where someone makes you feel inferior, makes you feel worthless or makes you feel stupid?
Maybe there is someone in your life that makes you act/react or respond in a certain way ‘because of the way they are’ ….Perhaps you censor yourself because of that person – or worse still – maybe you just stop being true to yourself or stop saying what you want to say because the person makes you feel like shit or intimidated.
SURPRISE! You are none of those things.
The reason you may feel this way is because you handed them your power in the moment you decided they could make you feel a certain way. Yep, you gave away your power, handed them your magic and decided that you were not in control.
The truth is, you can choose! Everything. Every single choice in your life is up to you – no one else.
You can choose to have toast for breakfast or fruit, you can choose the music you want to listen to and you can choose to have a great day. Above all – and this is really important – you can choose your thoughts and feelings! So, when the time comes that you interact with an asshole or whoever – it could be a friend or partner – if you feel yourself go into internal dialogue about who you are because of that other person –
Until you decide you are fucking wonder woman (or man) and until that moment where you decide and accept that you are the powerful wondrous being that yo are – are doing yourself a disservice because no one can make you feel anything.
We choose to feel the way we feel and the moment that we take control, take the reigns back on our thoughts and feelings and say
“woahhh there, hang on a minute – do I detect myself feeling something less than awesome right now? What is this feeling coming up <<name it>> is this feeling working for me in my highest good? If no, whats the opposite of this feeling? What is the feeling I can choose for myself right now so I remain in my full power and continue to see the best in myself”
You have the power to create and change your life in an instant. It begins with thoughts and feelings – how we perceive our self – how we believe our self to be.
Stay true to yourself!!
Own the magic you were born with and create positive thoughts and feelings from your heart and be only that – the best of what you know yourself to be.
Through the implementation of this awareness of your greatest self – embodiment is inevitable
Wonderful empowering post on how truly, no one can make you feel anything. I want to have a discussion with my 13 year old daughter about just this topic and I have been searching for information and words about how you can stand up to people who don’t make you feel good. You have hit the nail on the had with this one. Yes, do not give the bullies the power, (or as you say, the magic) do not let them dictate your day, your mood or how you feel about yourself. Thank you for furthering the discussion about this very important topic.
I am soo so sooo glad you are here! This is such an important topic for the young girls. I got bullied at school a whole lot. I would run to the gate so I didn’t get bashed – bullying is not cool so I trust this will give your daughter some empowerment knowing she can choose to feel the way she wants to feel – stand in her power! YES!
I will be doing a live video about bullying in this coming week at Madiens Of Honour – this is a fb page I’ve recently started that will be of great service to you and your daughter. I invite you to come and hang out on the page and share the content with your daughter. It specifically aligns to our young maidens approaching the altar of transformation into woman hood – we talk about lunar cycles and our moon cycles, empowerment, how to let go and different ways to bring a practice into our daily life – specifically around our moon cycles. I share the information and support I felt I didn’t have access to when I began to bleed almost 30 years ago.
I really look forward to seeing you there! Feel free to shout out and say hi – I welcome you and your daughter with an open heart. Thankyou for making the time to share this information with your daughter! Infinite blessings to you both ! xxx
I’m glad I came across your site as this was a really interesting read for me.
Your analysis is detailed and complete. Not left with many questions. Thanks a lot for sharing this top notch article. I personally think the article is too short. Maybe add a few more paragraphs!
How do you feel?
Keep up the good work.
Thankyou! I’m glad you like it so much that you would want more – You’re absolutely right Peeters – short and sweet this one – most of them are like an epic novel! I feel like that is a very lovely compliment – Thankyou so much for popping in to hang out – and for your honest feedback. Blessings to you xx
Hi Karsha,
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Thanks for joining us here Shakil! I’m so happy you feel to share this information with the wider community – thank you so much!